1: You act rude openly when you do not need something from others.
The biggest sign that you are a moody person, horrible at communicating with others, is that you become friendly and nice during times when you need something from others. Otherwise, you act rude and distant, and such a rudeness and distance is obvious and visible to everyone. Now, you may think you are smart. Who wouldn’t think they are smart because they know how to act nicer in order to get things from people, right?
2 : You tend to be rude to new people because of personal issues not related to them
The 2nd biggest sign that you are a moody person is that you act very rude and distant towards new people. Whether you meet someone in person, through a blog comment or via some instant messenger, you act rude and distant, trying your best not to communicate effectively with them. You may call yourself a professional or a careful person in such cases, because you act “distant.” I think such qualities make you more insecure and childish instead. Why?
3 : You act rude only around people of a certain sex
If you act rude around a certain sex all the time, you may be a moody person on your way to being a person who discriminates. Because of some past experience, you are being moody and rude to all the people of that specific sex.
4 : You act moody around all people who do not share the same religious views as yourself.
You are the 4th type of moody person if you love interacting with Christian or Muslim or Jewish or other religious people that you do not even know personally, and at the same exact time, you act rude to people who do not share the same religious beliefs as you. Your rudeness and quietness are not signs of professionalism; they are signs of moodiness that is springing towards extremism, where someone innocent who has done you no direct or indirect harm is getting discriminated by you. You are simply a moody religious person who does not know how to interact with others.
5 : You love talking to rich people, while you act weird and rude around everyone else
You may be a moody person if you act nicely only around publicly known rich and prominent people, while acting rude on purpose around other people simply because of the fact that those other people are not rich or do not talk about ways to make money. You may think that being nice only to prominent people is the same as looking up to a role model. It is not the same thing. Looking up to people does not mean you have to be rude to innocent people you barely know, like the people who do not blog about ways to make money.
6 : You say something today, and then tomorrow you do not stand by it
You may be a moody person if you say different things from time to time to other people, and then regularly not stand by what you said. You tell people things you will either do or plan to do, and other people start doing things also because of what you say. Later on, you just change your mind for no good reason, and other people end up wasting their time and thus avoiding you later on as you are simply a person who says things without meaning them.
7 : You act rude to people because of their political views
You probably notice this sign every single day. Some people judge, discriminate, disagree or hate other people simply because those other people do not share the same political beliefs as them. It is like a mind controlling religion, with people being taught to hate everyone who is not affiliated with a certain agenda. It is funny how political parties talk about uniting people within a country under one political party, but rarely talk about uniting people from different parties under one country, or about uniting all people from the world under one planet.
8 : You act rude to people simply because of their ethnic background
Some people not only feel comfortable hanging around people from their own ethnic background, they also feel uncomfortable running into people from different ethnicities. These people may not be racists, but they sure act rude around anyone not from their ethnic background. If you are such a person, you act moody simply because of some stereotype you may have about other ethnicities, or because you may feel your own ethnic background is superior to every other ethnicity on the planet. You allow such a mentality to affect your mood, which in turn controls your behavior and makes you act rude around people from different backgrounds.
9 : You act rude and extreme to everyone and everything because of frustration due to various things
This may be the most common sign of moodiness out there. Many people feel frustrated or agitated because of things like stress, hunger, lack of sleep, health, work pressure, relationship issues or even because of boredom, and they will let out such feelings on everything in the world. These people will act rude to everyone while they are feeling frustrated, and these people will also release their stress on anything that crosses their path.
10 : You act rude because of moody people around you
This may be the strangest form of moodiness you may encounter. Some people feel the tendency to act rude around people who are already acting rude. If you are one of those people who feels their moods changing around moody people, chances are you are allowing the moody person to indirectly affect your moods. You may actually be a person who does not allow different things to affect your moods that may in turn affect your interaction with others, but for some reason, other moody people tend to set an alarm in your mind that results in you becoming a different person. Even if you feel moody at a moody person, you yourself are still a moody person.
Ms. Diva Michelle
Michelle Ambrose aka Ms. Diva Michelle is a community oriented, event planner, project manager, basketball coach and single mother, with an urge to express her zest for food, travel, mingling and making connections. Given all she's learned in the event planning industry about hospitality and quality dining and by staying in the loop on upcoming events, Ambrose has created this online spot for what's hot and what's not.